HealBridge works with women and children leaving domestic abuse in Nigeria. Safe shelter, counselling, legal help, and a route back to work.

Contact info

Ikeja, Lagos State, Nigeria +234 802 517 0267 hello@healbridge.org Support line hours: Mon to Fri, 8am to 6pm WAT Emergency: call 112 any time
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Our six programmes, and what each one actually pays for

HealBridge runs six programmes. They exist because these are the six things that decide whether leaving lasts, and because a woman who receives only one of them very often goes back. That is the whole design principle. A shelter bed

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Property, and what you are actually entitled to

There is a widespread belief that on divorce everything is divided equally. That is the position in some countries. It is not the general position in Nigeria, and women who assume it are frequently shocked. The realistic picture is that

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Getting back to work after abuse

Many women coming out of an abusive marriage have not worked for years. Not by choice, but because working was not permitted, or because it was made impossible by refusing childcare, refusing transport, or arriving at the workplace often enough

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Trackers, cars and smart devices

Most advice about surveillance stops at the phone. That was reasonable ten years ago. Now a woman can leave the phone at home, take a car, and still be watched, and the devices doing it are cheap, small, and sold

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Finding a lawyer, and what it costs

The belief that a lawyer is unaffordable stops more women than the actual cost does. Some of the best routes are free, several are cheap, and knowing which is which is most of the problem. A second point worth making

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How to apply for a protection order in Nigeria

A protection order is a court order telling somebody to stop. It is one of the very few tools that changes a man's behaviour by changing his risk, rather than by asking him to be different. It can require a

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When you can hear it through the wall

You hear it. Most weeks, or some weeks, through a wall or across a compound. Shouting, then something else, then a child crying, then quiet. And then the ordinary paralysis: it is not your business, you might be wrong, you

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What we ask of employers, and what we do not

The conversation with a new employer usually starts with them bracing for a request they will have to refuse. Lower the bar, take somebody who cannot really do the work, absorb a level of disruption, treat it as charity and

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Being followed, and travelling more safely

Home has doors and a workplace has other people. The journey between them has neither, and it is also the most predictable thing most of us do — the same route, the same hour, the same bus stop, five days

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Abuse in a polygamous household

Polygamous marriage is lawful in Nigeria under customary and Islamic law, and a very large number of women live in one. This article is not an argument about the institution. It is about a set of mechanisms that appear in

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