HealBridge works with women and children leaving domestic abuse in Nigeria. Safe shelter, counselling, legal help, and a route back to work.

Contact info

Ikeja, Lagos State, Nigeria +234 802 517 0267 hello@healbridge.org Support line hours: Mon to Fri, 8am to 6pm WAT Emergency: call 112 any time
  • Comments Off on When faith is used to control you

When faith is used to control you

Faith is a genuine source of strength for a great many of the women we work with, and nothing here is an argument against anybody's religion. A household organised around worship, with a husband who takes headship seriously, is an

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Widows: being inherited, and being dispossessed

A woman is widowed and within days it becomes clear that a set of arrangements has been made about her. She is to marry his brother. Or she is to leave the house, which belongs to the family. Or she

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If you were married very young

This is written for two people. A woman who was married before she was grown, and is now perhaps nineteen, perhaps forty-five, and has never had a place to ask about it. And somebody who knows a girl this is

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  • Comments Off on When he threatens to kill himself if you leave

When he threatens to kill himself if you leave

If I go, he will kill himself. And then it will be my fault, and his mother will say so, and the children will know. This stops more women than the threat of violence does, because violence is something done

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When it starts after many good years

Most descriptions of abuse assume it was there from early on, hidden at first and then revealed. That is the usual pattern and it is not the only one. A significant number of women describe something different: fifteen or twenty-five

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When the family is the one punishing you

Most of this site describes one person harming another inside a marriage. This is about something with a different shape: harm carried out, or approved of, by several members of a family, because of what a woman is believed to

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Men who are abused

This site is written for women, because that is who our programmes are built for and because the overwhelming majority of people we work with are women. Men are also abused, the ones who are get very little, and writing

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When he threatens to take the children

Of everything said to keep a woman in a marriage, this is the one that works. Money can be earned and injuries heal. The prospect of walking out of your own house and never seeing your children again stops almost

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Abuse later in life

Almost every domestic abuse service is designed around a woman in her thirties with young children. Women in their sixties and seventies experience abuse too, and they are among the least likely people in Nigeria to tell anybody about it.

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