HealBridge works with women and children leaving domestic abuse in Nigeria. Safe shelter, counselling, legal help, and a route back to work.

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Ikeja, Lagos State, Nigeria +234 802 517 0267 hello@healbridge.org Support line hours: Mon to Fri, 8am to 6pm WAT Emergency: call 112 any time
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Starting a small business after leaving

Most advice about rebuilding assumes a job. For a great many Nigerian women a trade is the more realistic route, and sometimes the better one: it starts sooner, it fits around children, it does not require a reference for a

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Trauma and your body: what to expect afterwards

A great many women describe the same surprise. They coped for years, left, reached somewhere safe, and then fell apart. That is not a relapse and it is not weakness. While you are in danger the body holds itself together

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When he will not leave you alone after you have left

Leaving frequently does not end the contact. It changes its form. A great many women describe more contact after separation than before, because the person who has lost control is trying to get it back, and because he now has

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If we are not the right service

Most organisations do not write this page, because it is not a good look. We think the absence of it is worse. People arrive at a service at the worst point of their lives, and the least useful thing that

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How to help a friend or sister who is being abused

People who suspect something usually do one of two things. They say nothing for years, or they say leave him and are never told anything again. There is a middle path, and it works considerably better than both. Ask once,

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Social media after you leave

People assume the risk here is him messaging them. That is the least of it, and it is the part that is easiest to stop. The real problem is that an ordinary social media presence broadcasts a surprising amount about

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Reporting to the police in Nigeria: what actually happens

Reporting is a decision, not an obligation, and it is yours to make. This article describes what tends to happen so that you can decide with your eyes open rather than discovering it at the counter. Before you go Take

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How we handle information, and why we hold so little

Most organisations write a privacy policy because they have to. This is the same information written as an article, because a policy is not much use to somebody deciding, right now, whether it is safe to send a message. The

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Renting a place in your own name

This is where leaving most often fails. Not at the door of the house, and not at the shelter. Six weeks later, at the point where somewhere temporary has to become somewhere permanent. The obstacles are specific and they are

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Covering your tracks online

If somebody checks the device you are reading this on, the fact that you visited a domestic abuse website is itself information you may not want them to have. This article explains what you can do about that, and what

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