HealBridge works with women and children leaving domestic abuse in Nigeria. Safe shelter, counselling, legal help, and a route back to work.
Most safety advice assumes you are leaving. Most women are not, at least not yet, and a plan that only works if you walk out of the door tonight is no use at all on an ordinary Tuesday. A safety
Read MoreFear of losing the children keeps more women in violent marriages than almost anything else. In most cases that fear is based on something a husband has said rather than on anything a court would decide. He is not usually
Read MoreAlmost everything written about domestic abuse is written for the day somebody leaves. That is a small fraction of the actual problem. Most women in an abusive marriage are still in it, many will be in it next year, and
Read MoreWomen arrive at lawyers and police stations with a great deal that happened and very little that can be shown. That is not a failure on their part — nobody documents a marriage while living in it — but it
Read MoreWomen who have experienced both often say the same thing. The beating healed in two weeks. What he said took years. Emotional abuse is a sustained pattern of behaviour designed to make you smaller, more doubtful and easier to manage.
Read MoreA hospital sees somebody once it is serious. You see them the same week, repeatedly, and for things nobody would go to a hospital for. For a very large number of Nigerians the pharmacy or the patent medicine shop is
Read MoreAsk people what stops a woman leaving and they say fear, or money, or the children. Those are all real. But the thing that most often stops the practical machinery from working, weeks later, is paper. You cannot enrol a
Read MoreLook at almost any charity in this sector and you will find a woman's face, a first name, and a paragraph about what happened to her. It is the standard form of the sector and it is what donors respond
Read MoreYou did the frightening thing. You got them out. And within a few weeks one of them is telling you it is your fault, that they want to go home, that their father never did anything, and that you have
Read MoreFor many Nigerian women the hardest conversation is not with the police or a lawyer. It is with her mother. Why families say stay Rarely out of cruelty. Usually out of some combination of the following, and it helps to
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HealBridge works with women and children leaving domestic abuse in Nigeria. Safe shelter, counselling, legal help, and a route back to work.
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